Grief

1 Samuel 12:19-25
19 The people all said to Samuel, "Pray to the Lord your God for your servants so that we will not die, for we have added to all our other sins the evil of asking for a king."
20 "Do not be afraid," Samuel replied. "You have done all this evil; yet do not turn away from the Lord, but serve the Lord with all your heart. 21 Do not turn away after useless idols. They can do you no good, nor can they rescue you, because they are useless. 22 For the sake of His great name the Lord will not reject His people, because the Lord was pleased to make you His own. 23 As for me, far be it from me that I should sin against the Lord by failing to pray for you. And I will teach you the way that is good and right. 24 But be sure to fear the Lord and serve Him faithfully with all your heart; consider what great things He has done for you. 25 Yet if you persist in doing evil, both you and your king will perish."
The context of this passage is a pivotal moment when the people of Israel chose to appoint a human king rather than continue under the direct rule of God. The Lord was displeased with their decision and allowed a great calamity to come upon them. Fearful, the people turned to Saul, their newly appointed king, to save them. But Saul, realizing his limitations, turned to God in prayer—acknowledging that even kings are powerless without the Lord.
This reminds us that while human solutions can be helpful, true deliverance comes only from God. Relying on human effort alone will never be enough.
Psalm 23 – A Psalm of David
1 The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing.
2 He makes me lie down in green pastures, He leads me beside quiet waters,
3 He refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for His name's sake.
4 Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.
5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
6 Surely Your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
That morning, Esteban Reyes managed to get out of the house for a walk. The motion of his feet, the rhythm of air filling and leaving his lungs, felt necessary. The last few weeks had been consumed by the slow decline of his younger sister, now in hospice. At nine years his junior, she had once arrived in America full of potential. Now, she lay fading. Esteban hoped her end, if it must come, would be peaceful. Swift, if the Lord willed it.
When the grief became too much, Esteban turned to the one practice that had never abandoned him: writing. Journaling had been his sanctuary since childhood. In those private pages, he communed with the Holy Spirit.
That day, like many others, his body resisted. It longed to shut down, to rest while his mind whirled with images—some warm, most haunted. He saw her as she was now, bedridden, and searched his memory for a safer version of her. But questions clawed at him.
Why her? Why now? What went wrong?
There were so many wrong turns, especially on her part. But Esteban knew his own silence hadn’t helped. When their mother had begged him to bring his younger sister to the United States—for family support, for aging parents, and for Esteban’s own care in old age—he had answered the call.
He had paid for her move, for her exams, even for the apartment she lived in. He had commuted on weekends to help her settle. But he hadn’t known about the boyfriend she left behind in Chicago—the one who quickly reappeared in her new town and started draining her finances.
Soon, the help she had promised dwindled. Then disappeared.
She wasn’t here to help the family, Esteban realized. She had come for freedom—to build her own life, her own dreams. He didn’t blame her. It's her life. But he couldn’t ignore the sting. While she sought love and independence, Esteban worked himself to the bone, funding dialysis for their mother, covering for college-aged nieces and nephews, managing endless financial needs.
Then came the worst decision: selling their condos and consolidating into a townhouse. He had hoped for shared responsibilities, lower bills, and family stability. What followed was betrayal. Her husband gambled away their savings. Checks were stolen—even from Esteban himself. Foreclosure loomed. Esteban paid thousands to save their home.
He finally asked him to leave. He had to.
Amazingly, she found a new boyfriend once her divorce was finalized. Esteban, weary but hopeful, encouraged her again to work on being independent. Driving lessons. A second chance to explore the world on her own. But a new husband was her priority. Maybe now she’d live the life she deserved.
But fate had other plans.
In 2015, she developed a gangrenous foot from uncontrolled diabetes. Esteban, a healthcare worker, changed her dressings daily. Her new husband tried to help. But even he saw what Esteban had long noticed—her isolation, her refusal to move, to engage, to fight for her health.
That was her pattern. Even as a child, she had lived inside a locked room, both literal and emotional. She had brought that room with her to America.
Her final illness—cervical cancer—came swiftly. Esteban had just begun reckoning with his own health. Three months earlier, he had suffered a mild stroke, the product of years of denial and unmanaged diabetes. He could no longer shoulder anyone else’s life.
He remembered how she once said she had saved for retirement and named him as her beneficiary. That money, he later learned, went to remodeling the home she and her new husband had bought—from him. She had once secretly purchased a condo in Manila with her ex-husband while Esteban was paying for everyone else’s survival.
Still, Esteban did not curse her.
He looked back and saw that his sacrifices weren’t wasted. The family he had carried had built their lives. They were abroad now, thriving. But the romantic notion of returning home to their warm embrace was long gone.
He was still alone. Still aging.
And yet, even in that solitude, he felt the Holy Spirit’s presence. The same Spirit who had stayed with him in the quiet hours, through every storm.
Now, as his sister lay dying, he imagined her free at last. She had always longed for her own version of happiness. Perhaps, Esteban thought, she had finally found it—in the light, reunited with their departed parents, their oldest brother, the community they once called home.
He didn’t cry. But he could have.
He had witnessed her first breath when she was born being 9 years his junior. Now he would witness her last.
And in that sacred symmetry, he saw the truth: the physical world fades. Names vanish. Pain is buried. Only the soul endures.
The body returns to the soil.
But the soul flies—free, eternal, untouched by decay.
And Esteban believed she was now flying.
She had finally unlocked the door she had kept closed for so long.
And she was dancing, at last, in the wide, sunlit garden of the Lord.
2025-07-02 02:13:22
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